Nofie Iman

A friend of mine said most bloggers were not socially educated or charming, as well as careless about their grooming and clothing. She argued that most bloggers were nerd-hippie men, prejudice, proud, ignorant, shy, selfish, unattractive on purpose, and won’t take risks in their life and go for it.

Let’s face it, dating sucks. It sucks to be rejected by hot and busty women, and it sucks to be alone. It sucks to be so nervous around a woman that you babble incoherently and it is even worse to act like a stud and have her slap you in front of your buddies.

Yes, there are other ways to make women attracted to you, like the confidence you project, the way you talk to her, the way you give eye contact, etc. That is all explained in many books and websites out there. They claimed that by following their method, you will get amazing results even if you’re so butt-ass ugly that you make horses bolt when they see you.

But you can really speed up your successes to super-sonic speeds by taking care of your blog “look”. It never hurts to have it in your arsenal. And that’s what this post is about.

Map Women’s Attention

A key step in getting her attention is getting a good idea of where she will want to look. When you craft the page on the computer, your job is to balance the relative noticeability of all the visual elements on the page, so that she will be drawn to the things that are most important.

Things that increase noticeability such as bigger text, strong colors, high contrast, movement (either actual animation or dynamic lines that give the impression of movement), things with plenty of space around them, and things placed at high-value positions on the page.

Use Proper Colors for Your Blog

Psychologists believe that colors will often create an emotional state in a woman. Different colors speak different emotions. What emotions and feelings do you want her to get from your blog?

For example, black means elegance, authority, dignity, sophistication, seductive, mystery. White means virtue, clean, status. Blue: loved, high regard, knowledge, trust, serious, responsibility, social status, caring, good health, tranquil, intuitive, trustworthy, calm, honest, loyalty, integrity. Green: relaxing, compassion, prosperity, prestige, growth, abundance, vitality, harmony, efficiency. Turquoise: refreshing, cool, imaginative, innovative, youthful. And there are many more.

Plenty of White Space

Women’s eye needs space (guttering in typo language) round stuff to help her clearly and cleanly identify things. In general, the more white space the better. Of course, “white” space doesn’t have to be white, but it does have to be space!

When women taking a page design that’s too crowded she would think, “Gosh, they really need to cram that page up a bit!” Believe me. Women like to see blogs using good-sized margins to space elements apart, and extra line-height to aid on-screen reading. She would feel so fresh, like taken a deep breath.

Be Clear and Brief

Women likes it much. On the whole, make sure that your writing is brief and well written. Paragraphs are short, typically one sentence, which is highly readable. Your whole message should be punchy and to-the-point.

Don’t cajole, or try to intrigue. You don’t have time. Decide on your site’s personality, and stick to it. For a blog to work, it has to have credibility. The easiest way to be credible is to believe it yourself.

Choosing the Right Beliefs

You don’t have always to tell the whole truth. Talk about positives, and avoid negatives, i.e. say what you do, or can do, what you believe in, how you work, what you have done, what your experience is, and so on.

If you don’t have as much experience, mention any relevant experience you do have. If you’re young, talk about your energy, enthusiasm and value-for-money. If you have fewer skills than others, turn them into specialisms and focus.

Use Podcast to Impress Her

In general, women get turned on by a few major categories of things such as voice tone, sensual (by no means sexual) language, and vivid descriptions. Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, feelings, and scenarios in painful detail. So, why don’t you take some time, prepare your self, put a recorder, and start recording your voice, then publish it on your blog?

Women Love Bad Boys

Women. I mean, beautiful women, tend to love bad boys. Bad boys are someone who’s dangerous and thrilling to be around. Bad boys are everything from gangsters to bikers to some rock and roll musicians. Of course, you don’t have to dress tough, drink, smoke, get tattoos, but, on the blogosphere, you can demonstrate it in every possible way (such as your writings, your blog appearance, etc.) that you’re coming from the wrong side of the tracks, and your mother would not approve.

Why do women love them? There is an addictive emotional rush being around a guy that could literally do anything. A lot of these guys wind up beating their model girlfriends and spending time in jail. I have to mention that this personality type is the one that women are most magnetically attracted to. Again, this is because of the addictive rush that comes from being around them.

There are Limited Numbers of Available Women on the Net

This is the type of myth promoted by whiners. They search for lame reasons why they can’t meet women, when in fact, there is no evidence anywhere to back up their claim. That is why it is called a myth and simply unfounded. Enough said.

Please also bear in mind that nowadays, blogging become more and more popular. According to a recent report from Pew Internet and American Life, women are also more likely to use the internet for blogging. Everybody have a blog and enjoy blogging much. From journalists to CEOs, from college students to housewives, from athletes to politician, from celebrities to photo models. Believe me. There are a lot of available women out there.

Now What?

Though you can easily make women attracted to you despite having a less than ideal physique, having a “suitable” blog will give you a one up over everyone all of the blogosphere world out there.

Now go out there, get a blog, tweak it, enjoy yourself, send me your stories, and get laid like a rock star! :P

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